Friday, September 2, 2011

Everyday we have choices we can make...

Choices...how do you choose!
How we choose to make a choise could really affect us?  We choose the clothes we wear to make us feel good about ourselves...or we hope it will make us feel good about the choice.  Sure I would look better if I lost 20 lbs but right now this is what I have to work with.  I have the choice to lose weight or take better control of my diet...but I have to choose and I have to say YES I want to do it.   No one can do it for me. 
Clutter - do you have clutter in your life..too many clothes...boxes of "stuff" from 15 years ago, purses, shoes, junk, hanging on emotional stuff....you have the choice to declutter and have a more balanced life if you choose to do something about it.  Take that first step...your choice.
How we communicate, the words we use - do we choose what we are going to say or do we spit out the words sometimes before we think.  Words can be very hurtful...reverse your thinking and think about what you are going to say.  Recently, I could have chose to be downright nasty but I made the choice to do the right thing for me, for furture refernce, call it good karma...I made the choice for myself...my family.
I choose to be kind, do random acts of kindness...why not to your neighbour, send a kind email or card, compliment someone...and WHY oh WHY is it so hard to say "sorry" or " I aplogize".  We are so quick to judge someone. Take the time to do something simple and new each day...you'll be surprised!~
I am who I am...why is that so hard for us.  Choice...change...these can be hard but easy. 
Growth...its our choice...